I am 5 years post op and have no ED issues and can get rock solid erections without problems, but every time I have an orgasm, I ejeculate urine with such force I can hit the ceiling. Matter of fact, I ejeculate urine with more force now without my prostate, than I ejeculated semen when I had my prostate. Figure that one out!!!!
I have had this problem since day one, and my uro says it will not get better over time and you just have to learn to live with it so get use to it. I asked him if at leat I am going to ejeculate urine, is there a pill I can take that will change my urine color to white? Well as long as I am going to ejeculate fluid, at least let it look like semen. No such pill so far.
Worst than than the ejeculation problem, is the constant dripping as soon as I get aroused. I am dry other wise, but as soon as I get aroused I can feel my splinkter muscle relax and I will start to drip like a leaky faucet. This really puts a damper on sex because now I have to put towels on the bed and be careful no to drip on my partner. My uro says if you ejeculate urine into your partner not to worry because urine is steril and it can't hurt her. Just try telling that to a woman!
Some people suggest using a condom, but then I loose all stimulation and there goes the erection. The only thing I have found that helps is using the position with the woman on top. In that way gravity keeps the urine from dripping and from ejeculating. Also ddrink a lot of water an hour or so before sex helps dilute the urine thus reducing odor.