As someone very new to this forum and someone still trying to decide on treatment, I find the info posted here about
90% helpful and 10% not. I think it's the 10% part that Tony is talking about
In truth, I don't know if I'm really here to help me decide what I'm going to do, but to validate the decision that I'm pretty sure I'm going to make.
After reading many of the, let's just say, passionate posts here, I'm starting to think that many people are here for validation, even after their treatment. That makes total sense to me. I'm sure everyone wants to feel good about what they've decided. This is what's important. There's no point busting someone's balls after the fact. What good is it going to do. This is not like a marriage. There's no divorce if you choose wrong. Every one of us will have to live with our decision forever...and I think "live" is the most important part.