Is it possible to get the agreement of all parties involved...
Ooof. I doubt it. We seem to have a pretty good crop of thick skulls covered by thin skins just now. I stand ready to delete any thread where the original poster and most of the participants ask me to, but candidly, it would be better if they would just ****in' stop it. A day's inactivity on any thread pushes it into page two where most new members won't see it. That is why locking a thread tends to make it go away. Unfortunately they keep
opening new threads or continuing their tit-for-tat on threads we
open asking them to stop.
I am still hopeful that since all of the moderators have asked people to stop that eventually they will.
And, for those of you who think you are not part of the problem, I will remind you that posting a comment to scold someone for misbehavior keeps the thread going. We have some members who stir up controversy because they enjoy the attention. Deny it to them. If you think someone has been unfairly treated, send him or her an email. Don't post a defense on the thread with the attack you think is unfair. That keeps the flame war going, too.
Slow PSA rise 2007-2012: 1.4=>8
4 bxs 2010-2012:
1)neg (some inflammation),
3)positive 1 of 14 GS6(3+3) 3-4%, 2nd opinion GS7(3+4)
Mild Pre-op ED
DaVinci RRP 6/14/12. left nerve spared
Path: pT3a pN0 R1 GS9(4+5) Pos margins on rt
Start 24 mo ADT3 7/26/12
Adjuvant IMRT 66.6 Gy 10/17/12 - 12/13/12
Leaky but better, Trimix, VEDForum Moderator - Not a Medical Professional