You can't sign off yet. I have to throw in my 2 cents.
So let me get this straight. You are healthy in all other respects but you have wet undies and a limp d***. Do I have it right?
I hear you buddy. I was incontinent after surgery, too. It affected my quality of life more than I could ever imagine. My purpose in life became pee control. Sex with leaking bits was not pleasant to say the least.
We're guys so we don't do the "ain't it awful" conversations. We jump into action.
Here's what I'd do.
Look into surgery to get yourself fixed. Look at a sling. It changed my life. It can change yours.
Research the AMS AdVance Sling. I love mine.
There is one downside to getting a sling and not needing pee pads: your proud package presentation will go down a notch. But, you can always stuff a Men's Guard down there for old time's sake if needed.
After you fix that. Look into injections. !!! Was that thump I just heard, the sound of you passing out and hitting the floor? Agreed. Sex will not be the same.
Seriously, go to the Franktalk site and read the comments and get info.
In general, the single/dating guys have found that they can 'play" like supermen. One guy in his 50's said he injects as he comes out of the shower and is like a teenager by the time he hits the sheets. His partner does not know about
it and is amazed at his virility and vitality.
And there is no mess!!!
Play your cards right and you can be like smiling Bob
on that worthless male enhancement commercial. (The one with the ladies lined up to sit on his lap.)
You are too young to be fretting about
this. Git 'er done!
Age: 60, Mar 37 yrs, 56 dx, PSA: 4/09 17.8, 6/09 23.2
Biopsy: 6/09 7 of 12 Pos, 20-70%, Gleason 4+3 Bone, CT Neg
DaVinci RP: 7/09, U of Roch Med Ctr
Path Rpt: Glsn 3+4, pT3aNOMx, 56g, Tumor 2.5x1.8 cm both lobes and apex
EPE present, PNI extensive, Sem Ves, Vas def clear, Lymph 0/13
Incont: 200ml/day ED: Trimix
Post Surg PSA: 10/09 .04, 7/10 <0.01, 7/11 <0.01, 1/12 <0.02
AdV Sling 1/10/11 Dry
Post Edited (Worried Guy) : 4/25/2013 7:23:52 PM (GMT-6)