I have not had consistent e-mail for several months, so I am afraid I did not know of the passing of several of our men. My condolences to all of you ladies. My partner Bob's condition continues to worsen. He has lost over 40 pounds, and the bone mets continue to cause him pain. His PSA is 100 and the doc took him off the Casodex, but has kept him on the Trelstar. One month of that, and we will see. The doc wants him to go on Zytiga and Prednisone, but I am not sure if he will do that. I have now taken FMLA from one of my jobs, but am grateful that I can also work from home. The last months were filled with such craziness of underemployment to the point where we came close to being evicted. But thankfully, financially things are looking up.
Being a caregiver is the hardest thing I have ever done, but I wouldn't be anywhere else.