I can only wish you well..With a great daughter you will do well on this journey! QUESTION--
Did you ever serve in the armed forces? If so, then the VA can help. You don't have to be a veteran of desert storm or whatever to get assistance from the VA--the largest medical system in this country. Either way, get Walsh's 3rd edition of his book "Surviving Prostate Cancer"--it's many member's "bible". After a biopsy, with your stats a bone and ct or mri scans are performed and the hormone therapy is started--if the cancer hasn't spread outside the prostate, then you have the bewildering choice of what therapy is best--make sure you have at least 2 opinions. one of my support group members has a psa of 151 and a 9 gleason and he's getting radiation--it hadn't spread...
These are just my observations from personal experience and may not apply to you..Don't ever stop fighting!