Wow. I don't know what to say. I feel so badly reading stuff like this.
I had BPH before my PC surgery (which cured my BPH but unfortunately not my PC).
I remember vividly those days of barely peeing a dribble. It was miserable. There were days where I had my coat on ready to go to the hospital for the feared catheter, but somehow I avoided that. But I remember the pain and discomfort and, really, the angst.
I sure hope things resolve quickly for you.
PSA-- 11/09--4.19 .Biop.11/30/09.G 4+3.RP: 1/26/10. G 4+3. PNI,EPE, Margin, No SVI..100% cont. by 3/10. PSA: 3/10/10-0.01; 6/21/10--0.02. ,3/1/11--0.27. SRT May '11, PSA 7/11/11-0.60; 8/11/11-0.75; PSADT-3 mos.; PSA 17.55 3/13 so started Lupron/Casodex. PSA 0.57 0n 4/20/13; 0.07 on 5/30/13. 0.03 on 7/26/13