Posted 9/22/2014 7:38 PM (GMT -6)
Thanks everyone for the kind and supportive words and thoughts.
142, thanks, according to his girlfriend apparently it did help a lot for us to talk. Most of the family just stayed away, just not having any ability to relate to him in any supportive way. Somehow hearing, "You have cancer" seems to put us on a different playing field. There's a commonality there that seems to reach deep inside. There's just something about the psychology of it, I guess.