My experience. I had the RP too. Full nerve-sparing. Dr gave me Viagra which I started about
a week before the operation. Last pre-op orgasm, two days before the operation. Goodbye ejaculations..
I had my first erection and orgasm through ********** nine days after the operation. (I am single so that's my only option.) I didn't worry about
sex after that, but to be sure, I practice. My sex drive would disappear for long periods of time (weeks) but I chalk that up just as much to getting older as the change. I'm 60 now.
Orgasms are different, no question about
it. I miss ejaculating as the main event. I sometimes ejaculate urine and that's ok but I miss the quantity and the feel of it going through that one has before the operation. I have had mind-blowing orgasms after the operation, some of the best were soon after, so that's good. It can be done.
When I feel like I'm losing interest, I *********. I don't know if my lack of interest is due more to getting older or the operation so as long as ********** works, I have no complaints. It isn't the same but it feels good.
Hope this helps.
I've written extensively about
my whole experience with this. You can read it here: http://myexperiencewithprostatecancer.blogspot.com
There are tags for post-op sexuality as well as impotence and other concerns (incontinence and that curse, the mess that is the administrative side of medicine and billing...)
PS I see they edit out a certain word. That word is what one does when one has sex by one's self.
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