Her opinion is I'm going to get there but my continued worrying is my worst enemy. Her advice was to be aware of it but not dwell on it. Also, recommended no more kegals just stop and start stream. I'm really going to try and change my mind set and take her advice.
6 years post-op and my Urologist's nurse tells me the same thing, and I'm still incontinent ... to a degree ... and I'm not happy about
it. My primary care physician is now advising me to go back to the Urologist to see what can be done to stop the leaking. He thinks corrective action is necessary, this long post-op.