MK, so sorry to hear you're having difficulties with incontinence. Have you talked to your medical team about
it? As Lamilla points out, there are physical therapists out there who specialize in pelvic floor issues, perhaps you could ask for a referral to one? I know it doesn't do much good to point out that your situation is unusual, but it is. All I can say is, hang in there, keep doing your kegals, and things will get better.
Oh, and even though this is likely the farthest thing from your thoughts, do ask for a scrip for daily cialis. It will also help get the blood flowing down there....which promotes healing generally, and will help your incontinence as well.
Age at Diagnosis: 56
Biopsy: 3 of 12, G3+3, all on LT side, 20%, 5%, 3%
Clinical Stage T2C
Bone Scan, CT scan negative for spread
RALP on 2/17/15, BJC St. Louis, Dr. Figenshau
58.5g, G3+4, 20%, 4 quadrants involved
PSA 3/10/15: 0.10
My Story: www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=35&m=3300024