As long as you are well informed and make a choice/balance that suits you and your situation, then it is the right answer for you Glen; and that is to be supported. I'm no MD, and certainly no psychiatrist but what you describe about
your feelings and emotions also has many similarities to depression and given the diagnosis is a very common side-effect that probably 50% or more guys suffer from in reality. I certainly have that T-Shirt. I say this not to be 'depressing' but to flag it as a possibility, because help can be sought and like so many things, recognizing and facing it is in itself part of the battle and road to better times.
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