Rockin - Your first post was very good and complete (except the part about
Djin being the smartest person in the room

). You are a good student and you learned to appreciate your wife a lot more as I did after 10 miserable days.
Not much to add, your three month PSA is the defining moment as you know and that gives you permission to relax for three months until the next one. The 3 month testing cycle gets old pretty quick as you soon see. I just went to 6 month testing after 2 years and it is a relief.
The only questions I would have are 1) Do you know what the percentage of Grade 4 cancer was in your 3+4 pathology? and 2) Any thoughts on getting a second opinion from J. Hopkins/Epstein on your pathology just to nail that part down?
EPE and SM are negative factors and your Decipher score is a positive factor as you probably know so you have to keep that in proper perspective. Very good chance that your prostate experience will be peaceful for a long time.