Sorry to hear the news. If there's a guy on this forum who could navigate it, that would be you.
I'm OK, and living on blessed, but borrowed time since trolling the skies over North Vietnam in '72. It's my wife that concerns me. A raw egg...hard on the outside and mush on the inside, refusing support help, bending over backwards for me, and maintaining a tough façade. I don't deserve her.
I suspect lots of PCa spouses are in the same boat, as their men obsess about
prostate bad luck. Keep that in mind, my friends. The time we're allotted is but a blink in this massive universe. Use it honorably and well.
Thanks again for the good vibes.