We had a small variety. We had Depends undergarments and Depends pads for men in the beginning. When my husband's cath was removed he had no control whatsoever - constant dripping. He felt more secure in the undergarment for a while, but soon found he liked the pads a lot more. I think being in his own jockies made him feel more himself too. I brought home the "Serenity pads for Men" as Letty mentioned, and he likes those much better than the Depends pads. They're not so bulky and seem to have a better coverage area, which offers him more security. Also, he found that he liked his jockies to be pretty snug to help hold things in place. Hope your hubby does well.