Hi SL & DWT,
Boy, it sure sounds like you two are having a heck of a time. My heart goes out to you. It's hard enough to go through these procedures alone, let alone having any complications. It sounds like it would be a REALLY good idea to have your primary doctor refer you to a urologist and as soon as possible.
Just know your not alone. It is a very hard stressful time for you both and its great to have a place like this to vent. Keep your chin up and know everyone here is pulling for you both and keeping you in our thoughts & prayers.
Husband diagnosed May 2006 at age 50. RRP performed 13 July 06.
PSA 5.7, Gleason 3+4=7, Staged T2C, Cancer confined to prostate.
His father diagnosed at age 62 and is currently a 13 year survivor!