We too are here with and for you and you're husband. We're so sorry you have to go through this. It's not easy and there are a lot of ups and downs, especially emotionally. It can still bring tears to my eyes remembering the day we found out. "Shocked and scared" are very good words to describe it. It is scarey, especially when you start letting all the "what ifs" get the better of you.
You really have to dig in now and do your homework on PC. The more you learn the better you'll feel, especially about making educated decisions that you'll have to be making to deal with this thing. I'm so glad that your husband's PC was found so early. There are so many men in their 40's that don't realize they should be getting checked for PC and don't catch it as early as you have. Early detection is the key to beating this CURABLE disease.
Remember that your not alone Sara and that there are always people here to talk to on this forum who really care and understand what your going through.
Sending lots of love, hugs and strength your way,
Husband diagnosed May 2006 at age 50. RRP performed 13 July 06.
PSA 5.7, Gleason 3+4=7, Staged T2C, Cancer confined to prostate.
His father diagnosed at age 62 and is currently a 13 year survivor!