Glad you got Foley out!!!! The continence will soon follow.
Sorry to hear about the change in your Gleason and staging. As Bluebird has said, there are many different journeys and stepping stones for all of us. Although your's is not the best news, it certainly isn't the worst. It just means a few more steps than some of us and less than others. I mentioned on another thread about another website called yananow.net You can find a lot of experience and help at this website also. There are others there with similar histories who have written about their treatments and are willing to answer your questions.
We'll continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers dreadnought and are sending hugs your way.