Thank you for your advise and I will talk to him tonight about less to drink at night. He is taking flomax and it doesn't seem to help, so I will tell him to ask if he can up the dose. I will ask his doc if it is ok to start him on the saw palmetto too. My Dad is 70 and he and my mom are my best friends. The day I found out about his cancer, part of me just shut down. I have sang at the Relay For Life Cancer Walk Luminary Service for the past 5 years, and I used to think, "Oh I feel so bad for all those people". This year it will be me and my family walking around that walk. Thanks for the replies.