I thought I would start this new thread to comment on your statement concerning your wife's feeling about the doctor's meetings. My wife and I also went to 2 doctors exams, and her feeling about the first doctor was uncomfortable. Of coarse I trust my wife's judgement (instincts) completely because she was the one that made me get a physical in the first place. So I would say what ever your wife senses; it is probably the best bet. By the way Jane and I have been married for 37 years, and we had dated for 6 years prior to that.