Absolutely, Swimom is great!
I use a ReJoyn; got it at Walgreen's when they sold them in stores (they stopped for some reason), and they were $100. Now, on their site, I think they're $130 or $140. If you don't have insurance coverage for a pump, this one is much less expensive and does a reasonable job. ReJoyn also sells these penile sleeves, that are kind of like splints that rigid-ize you so you can have some kind of sex.
By the way, Swimom, I went just now for my second post-op PSA, in preparation for an appointment next week to see the testosterone specialist doc in my urologist's group. I am getting so fat, sluggish, and depressed, I'm really hoping the PSA is nil, not only for the cancer, but so I can get on T. This is about 7 months post surgery.
Waiting to exhale,
PSA (10/04): 2.9; PSA (2/06):4.4, on Androgel (serum T about 450) at age 56; negative DRE, no symptoms.
PSA (5/06):5.7 with a free PSA% of 8, OFF Androgel (serum T 163).
Biopsy (5/06): 4/12 samples positive; postitive samples only on right side; max Gleason 4+3=7 (in 2 of the 4 -from area nearest bladder. One was 40% of sample, the others less than a mm. thick.
DaVinci robotic-assisted laparoscopic radical prostatectomy + bladder lift + Right nerve plastic surgery (8/23/06).
Catheter out 4 weeks postop, due to internal pinhole leak at bladder-urethra junction.
Pads-Not needed after about 2 weeks post-cath, but gotta go a lot more often.
Final pathology report:T2c-both sides,but in capsule; neg. margins, neg. lymph nodes, neg. seminal vesicles; final max Gleason still 4+3=7.
1st Follow-up PSA (11/7/06): <0.008 !!!; serum T: 195 - still OFF Androgel (at present). Low T may delay return of erectile function (in presence of one damaged nerve).