I had both pain like that and leakage... as a matter of fact, I still have some pain at the end of the penis and still have leakage and still lots of leakage (at 9 weeks post op). But I think the pain is a little better now and I am regaining some control of my urine, but when I walk or stand, it is still hard to control. So hang in there and be patient. Patience has been hard for me, but I am sure learning it and... according the Bible, patience comes through "tribulation". I think most of us on the board know a little about "tribulation" in these matters at least and patience seems to finally come to most of us as a result.