That is a great atitude Mal! and Congrats on having such a wonderful life partner!
I too have been blessed with a very loving and understanding wife! We have been married for 30 happy years!
Since the first diagnoses she has been nothing but supportive and loving! the sex was the least important part of our relationship (but the most fun...lol). We still play and have introduced other options for pleasing each other and its like being in a new and adventure some sex life!
So..try all options you will be suprised what you will find..we did!
PSA 10.2 - Discovered during Annual Physical with Family Doctor
Referred to Urologist Surgeon specialist
Free and total PSA - 10.9
Biopsy ( sent to John Hopkins pathology) - 2 of 16 positive on left and right apex of prostate
Left - GS 3+3=6, Right - GS 3+3=6
Davinci assisted laparoscopy radical prostatectomy on Apr. 17, 2007 -Complications due to extreme unusual size of prostate. Normal Prostate = 20 to 31 grams. Mine = 120 grams (not enlarged, but genetic growth large)
Nerves on right side spared.
All Lab's clear. No Cancer outside prostate
Cystogram Apr. 24 2007- Slight leakage at anastomosi negligible.
Catheter in for 1 week Removed Apr. 24, 2007
May 30th, First post-op PSA results...Non-Detectable!