Cynthia,
Most still have
some incontinence issues at two months.
Many start controlling leaks somewhat from month 2 through month 4 and then just suddenly don't need pads.
I always suggest getting a referral to a bio-feedback therapist to focus your pelvic floor muscle kegel exercises - if after 8 weeks you are not gaining some control and seeing improvement.
A few fight incontinence much longer. Most will be down to one "security" pad that sees little if any spotting - or no pad - by six months.
While you didn't mention it, Erectile Dysfunction can be no problem for a VERY few, or take one to two years to overcome for most. If after 8 weeks, he still has erectile dysfunction, I personally recommend he start pump therapy ASAP (not for pleasure - rather to stop the tissues from atrophying and to encourage nerve rehabilitation/coordination).
Most importantly, it is great to hear your husband's margins are clear!
Be patient and be positive and you will heal.
Your Friend,
CCedar
ICTHUS!