We were in a very similar situation to you and your hubby. My husband (bzup) was diagnosed in April 2007, and our daughter was getting married in June. He asked the doctor about waiting on the surgery until after the wedding and the doctor said it was not a problem. He was 52, PSA jumped from 1.7 to 3.1, Gleason 3+3, T1C. Hope the surgery goes off perfectly!
Congratulations on the upcoming wedding! Have a blast and dance the night away : )
PSA rose from 1.7 to 3.1 over 2 years.
Biopsy confirmed cancer in 2 of 12 cores (3% and 4%)
Pre-op clinical pathology - T1C; Gleason 6 (3 + 3)
Post-op pathology - T2c; Gleason 3+4, 5% cancer, clear margins, no spread beyond prostate
Nerve sparing, robotic surgery, Ohio State University Hospital, Dr. Vipul Patel, July 2, 2007