What position works best?
Traditional (missionary) - i.e., man on top facing woman - 0.0% - 0 votes
Frombie (from behind, aka doggie style) - 0.0% - 0 votes
Cowgirl (woman on top facing man) - 40.0% - 2 votes
Reverse cowgirl (woman on top, back to man) - 20.0% - 1 votes
Other (please explain) - 40.0% - 2 votes
Posted 9/6/2007 2:13 PM (GMT -7)
(Apologies to anyone who is offended - hopefully no one - but I am sincerely looking for opinions here)
At this point I am having spongy erections - PDE5 inhibitor assisted or VED produced. I am curious what positions for coitus (erm, sex) that people find work best in this situation.
Prostate cancer diagnosed: May 15, 2006 (age 40)
Gleason score: pre-surgery 3+3=6; post-surgery 3+4=7
daVinci radical prostatectomy: July 25, 2006
size of tumor: approx 1.1 inches; negative margins from surgery
- number of pads/day at 3 months after surgery: 3 to 5
- number of pads/day at 4 months after surgery: 1 to 2
- number of pads/day at 6-12 months after surgery: 0 to 1
- 1st post-surgery PSA: 0 (Nov 2006); 2nd post-surgery PSA: 0 (Feb 2007)
- 3rd post-surgery PSA: 0 (May 2007); 4th post-surgery PSA: 0 (June 2007)
The search for timber: took Viagra/Cialis approx. every other day, ErecAid once a day, injections. Peyronie's diagnosed 7/5/07. Now on Cialis, L-arginine and pentoxyfylline, ordered to be celibate for 6 weeks.
- PGE1 batting average: .364 (4 for 11)
- Bimix batting average: .500 (4 for 8)
- Trimix batting average: .500 (1 for 2)
"Lost in the valley without my horses, no one can tell me what my remorse is..."
Posted 9/6/2007 3:09 PM (GMT -7)
Have you tried standing or kneeling to improve your erections? This is often how the first good erections are achieved. There is a high rate of venous leakage (back flow) following a prostatectomy. As the Peyronie's stablizes and nerves regenerate, you will notice a better response to oral meds I hope. Standing/kneeling often helps. Try it... and if it helps, just use your imagination :>) Good Luck.
Posted 9/6/2007 3:37 PM (GMT -7)
Swim's advice is right on line. My first penetration after surgery was done using a vacuum pump and standing with my my wife lying on the bed. We have a high bed so it worked okay. When you stand you will find the erection a little firmer and you also can control the aim. Of course lubrication helps a lot.
Diagnosed 7/6/06, 1 of 10 core samples, 40%,Stage T1c, Gleason 3+3
Da Vinci on 11/01/06, Catheter out on 11/13/06
56 Years Old
Post Op Path, Gleason 3+3, Approx. 5% of prostate involved
Prostate Confined, margins clear
Undetectable PSA on 12/18/06
No more pads as of 1/13/07
Began injections in April '07
Undetectable PSA on 6/25/07