What questions should we be asking?

Missyj

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Posted 11/19/2007 12:25 PM (GMT -7)

Hello everybody

My husband has a meeting with the oncology nurse on Thursday, the first time we will have seen anyone since his being told the cancer had spread to the bones in five places and also to the seminal vesicle

he has been taking Zolodex for three months now and his PSA has reduced from 17.7 to 2.3 during that time (sorry for repeating information already posted before)

We both feel that this is our chance to ask questions about his treatment plan and how she feels he is doing so far, but we're not sure what questions to ask

I know a lot of people on here are very knowledgeable about various treatment options, so wondered if you could give us some ideas (bearing in mind we are in the UK)

Any thoughts on this would be much appreciated

Thank you, Julia

Age - 59

Dianosed - July 07

Gleason 8 (4+4)

PSA - 17

Bone Scan - August 07 revealed mets to spine, neck, rib, shoulder and pelvis

MRI - August 07 revealed seminal vesicle involvement

Treatment - Zolodex started on August 10th

First PSA test November 7th - 2.3

aus

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Posted 11/19/2007 3:24 PM (GMT -7)

It's worth reading information from Dr Charles Myers online or from his book "Beating Prostate Casncer: Hormonal Therapy & Diet".

He suggests testing of hormone levels Testosterone & Dihydrotestosterone to see that the treatment is doing what it's supposed to.

bluebird

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Posted 11/19/2007 5:34 PM (GMT -7)

Hey ~ Julia, Keeping you both close as you move forward... with Helping Hands to help hold you steady. Our thoughts and prayers surround you. Continue to pull from all of us. We each have something "special" to share. In Friendship ~ Lee & Buddy BOOKS... Recommended by Forum Members HealingWell’s ~ official bookstore Buy books via (link)…>> WellnessBooks.com This is a major way that we help raise funds to keep the site alive and growing. WellnessBooks.com has literally millions of books available through Amazon.com. bluebird ~ Moderator for Prostate Cancer Forum

myman

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Posted 11/20/2007 6:22 PM (GMT -7)

Hi Missyj,
I probably can't offer anything new...my husband is still on Lupron - just had blood taken today and will get results next week. Every time we go back to get those all important numbers we say "Now, let's be sure to ask every question we have...no matter how insignificant it may seem." So, that's where you start...paper & pen in hand, sit down with your husband and write ANY questions you have, even if you asked them before! It's okay to do that. It's okay to say, "Doc, we're not as educated about this disease as we'd like, so please walk us through this...the treatment, why this particular treatment and what is your plan for future treatment?" That should get a dialog going. Bring someone if that would be better...have them take notes.

I wanted to get this back to the top so the other members would see it and hopefully help you out.

I'll be thinking of you both and hoping for the best, please let us know how the appointment goes.
Susan

Husband Diagnosed 11/17/05 Age: 63 No Symptoms
PSA: 7.96, Positive DRE
Biopsy Right: 6 of 6 Cores Positive Biopsy Left: 1 of 6 Cores Positive
Gleason: 4+3 = 7 Stage: T2B N0 MX
3 mo. PSA Post LRP Surgery: 11.8, 12.9, 13.9 Bone scan, CT scan, Endorectal MRI, Chest XR - neg.
09/06/06: 6 mo. PSA: 18.8 Distant lymph node involvement Start HT Lupron 3 mo. shots
12/06/06: PSA 0.8
03/07/07: PSA 0.3
06/06/07: PSA 0.1
09/05/07: PSA 0.1

War-eagle

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Posts : 219

Posted 11/21/2007 6:37 AM (GMT -7)

My dear friend Julia,

Susan is so right. Start now with the paper and pen. No question is to trivial. Ask about options. Hormones, surgery, radiation, everything. Every doctor (oncologist) is different. I changed oncologist last week. My old doc wanted to start chemo. New doc says no, not yet, it's our ace in the hole and we don't want to play it now. Old doc did not want to do any radiation for pain. New doc says sure let's see what we can do. It's all about knowledge and trust. We like this new guy. He is a 10 year survivior of cancer. He has been there and knows what we are going through.

Get your questions lined up and don't let them rush you. Write down everything and don't let the nurse leave until you are satisfied with the answers. Then it's up to you and your husband on what to do next. I hope the care in the UK will let you do this. It's just the right thing to do.

You are in our prayers (and may more).

Love and a BIG War Eagle.

Age: 54

PSA 43 7/2005

Biopsy 12/14 Gleason 7 & 9

Divinci 9/2005 - spread to bladder

HT - 10/2005 (Eligard every 6 months)

RT - 10/2005 (38 treatments)

PSA 0.12 to 1.9 2/2007

Bone Scan and CT 4/2007

Casodex 4/2007

Spread to Spine (L4 & T5), rib, and pelvis

Zometa infusions 4/2007

PSA 4.8 8/2007

PSA 4.9 9/2007

PSA 5.4 10/07

PSA 6.4 11/07

"I will persist without exception - I will find a way where there is no way"

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