Hi Diana & Boyfriend - - sorry to hear your "not what we wanted to hear" news. There are lots of good stories out there of people who have had dire predictions and with treatment and a positive attitude are around with a good quality of life many years past what they were told.
Please stick with us and share your story and take hope from the ones you also read in here. Take a look at the most recent veteran1 post - you'll see his Dad who had aggressive prostate cancer and is still doing very well. I believe another site is www.yananow.net
which has many long term reports. (If I'm wrong, someone please correct the site address)
Hang in there and good luck to you both.
;o) Linda & Bob