Urine loss during sex- Attn: chas036

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James C.
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   Posted 12/4/2007 4:02 PM (GMT -6)   
I thought maybe my reply to you got buried quickly in the thread, so am pulling it out here, as it may be important info. for more than just you and me.  Here's what I posted in Pauls thread for you.:

chas036 says:

 ""was that I have no ED problems what so ever and can get a full and hard erection without drugs. But you know what?,,,,it is completely worthless to me becuase of my incontinence.  Because I drip so much and when I an orgasm I ejectulate urine, my wife wants nothing to do with me until I stop leaking. ""

Charlie, I am having the same problem with peeing while being stimulated or during sex.  I found a solution for me-a set of penis tension rings, specifically the Encore ImpoAid system.  This system is 4 sized rings, lube, and a cone and adapter applicator for placing the tension ring on the penis.  This system is for those who are fortunate enough to be able to get erections without pumps or injections, but who want or need to keep the blood in the penis for some time.  The tension rings are sized such that you should be able to find one that will keep you from peeing while erect or having sex, by clamping off the urethea and preventing urine from escaping while the ring is in place.  I found the size needed to keep me from peeing is small but is pretty comfortable when in place.  Maximum time to have it on your penis is 30 minutes.  It takes a little  practice and experimenting to make it work good every time, but this may be what you need to allow for sex and keep your wife happy and comfortable with sex with you. Wearing a proper sized one of these is more confortable for me than using the Vacurect washer type rings.  Just 16.17 plus 6.95 or so shipping here:


The tension ring is placed onto the cone, which is fitted into the recess of the sleeve.  The ring is pushed down the cone, onto the plastic sleeve, the sleeve is placed on the erect penis and the tension ring is rolled off the sleeve onto the base of the penis.  The included instructions are clear and precise.  Hope this helps your situation.

James C.

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   Posted 12/4/2007 8:34 PM (GMT -6)   
I know that some guys hate condoms, but wouldn't that be preferable to the rings and gadgets?  Speaking of urine loss, has anyone tried medication prescribed for this problem?  If so, see today's news and warning about desmopressin (and other names) which is prescribed for "bedwetters". 

Post Edited (gtmriviera) : 12/4/2007 6:37:44 PM (GMT-7)

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   Posted 12/4/2007 10:52 PM (GMT -6)   
Just my opinion but I don't mind using a condom. The only thing I learned was go get a pad back on as soon as your done because when you go limp the urine the condom held in will leak right out.

Good Luck Everyone.

    PSA 5.7 - Discovered during Annual Physical with Family Practice Dr.
        Biopsy Sept. 27, 2006 - Diagnosis Sept. 29 - 3 of 12 positive (up to 75%) all on left side of prostate, Gleason 7
        RRP on Oct. 17, - Nerves on right side saved.
    All Lab's clear.  No Cancer outside prostate
    Cathiter in for 28 days due to complications in healing. Removed Nov. 9, 2006
    First Post op PSA on Dec. 11, 2006  Undetectable 0.00
    Office visit on Jan. 19th due to continued excessive urine leakage.
    Feb.20th Cystoscope and 2nd Post Op PSA. Another 0.00.....:)
    Dr. said everything looks fine.  Continue to work Kegeal's. Leaking appears to have improved  after Cystoscope?!?!?!  Down to 3-4 pads per day!
    March 1st  Leaking has crept back up to 6 - 8 pads a day ??????? 
    March 29th Collagen injection into sphincter / bladder neck area to control excessive leaking.  Worked for a couple of days then back to leaking.
    April 17th (Six Months Post Op) 2nd Collagen Injection to control excessive leaking.  Leaking started back next day at work!
    May 14th Second Opinion about my leaking and Options at OU Medical Center.  After reviewing my records the Dr. feels I will probably need some surgical intervention to stop my leaking.  But did agree to try Bio-Feedback and work hard on the Kegeal's first!
    May 30th Follow up with my Dr. and 3rd Post Op PSA 0.00 agian!!!
    June 1st Start Bio-Feedback to try to control my leaking.
    Oct 17, 2007 1 year Post Op - Still fighting moderate / Severe incontenance. Using 4-6 pads a day.  Erections usable....sometimes!...Better with 100mg Viagra

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