Posted 12/29/2007 6:13 PM (GMT -7)
judy you are so sweet i can't thank you enough for your intuitiveness, and i can feel that hug! of course her being home for the holiday is more intense, but all of this information seeking is on my own, i am trying hard to keep a strong face. old hat if you didn't see in my post, i'm still not sure if the threads are followed , i do go to a support group, and you are encouraging when you say it sounds as though she is on the right track, quincy; my other daughter is 22. she moved into the city after finishing school in may and the 2 of them are close and my younger one spends time in the city whenever she is in for a holiday. i promise i don't hover i may want to but i don't. since she lives out of the house i don't think she is feeling the focus l may put on the younger ones uc. really i'm not trying to bring down the family. when we all get together it's for fun! i do a lot of sharing with my husband, and i work so i have many hours thank gd where my mind must otherwise be occupied. and askasnowbunny , my heart is with you , and all of the husbands and wives mothers ,fathers and signifiicant others who wish we could make it all better.