sorry to hear bout everything that is going on. There are many different sides to the remicade baby debate and it's a personal decision that you will be making. If you search this site for remicade and pregnancy you will find some very interesting posts, I can't remember what they all say but it's a start. Also, I think there may be more people on the Chron's page who can provide info about remicade and pregnancy.
Whatever your decision is, make sure you, your OB and GI and Liver Doctor work together
I understand how you feel (well almost) I also have kidney disease and need to get that taken care of first before I can get pregnant (was hoping to be pregnant at this time but have to wait) and think about the UC drugs I am on.
Wish you the best!
Major Flare Sept/Oct 07 ~ working on remission almost there
UC Diagnosed March 2000 (30 cenitmeters)
Azathioprine 200mg 1xday nightly; Calcium and Vit D 500mg 3xday, Multi Vit, Folic Acid 400mg 2xday, Probiotics.
Minimal Change Disease (Kidney Disorder) Diagnosed Sept 2007
Prednisone 60/40mg alt days 1xday, Simvastatin 20mg 1xday, Diovan 160mg 2xday. Potassium 600mg 2xday, Fosomax 70mg 1xweek. MCD may be from hypersensitivty to 5ASA drugs.