The best thing is a good ear and a gentle hug. Suebear is right; sometimes others who don't have an illness tend to shy away so you might be her biggest ally right now. What a great friend you are; especially seeking out ways to make her more comfortable. Hey, just thought of this...maybe you could post this on the Crohn's forum for more insight?
Remicade - will have my 20th infusion on February 21.
Imuran - 100 mgs....taken before bedtime
Vitamin B-12/Biotin, Probiotics
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