feedback on what??? Not to burst anyone's bubble, but being married with UC sucks just as much as being single with it- I don't go to movies, out to dinner, don't go to company outings, don't do many family vacations without a LOT of planning, ie- Immodium & diapers & baby wipes & etc, etc, etc. The same limitations apply to everyone, single or involved. In fact, I think it's worse being involved, because then you deal with the guilt associated with not being able to do things, & the biggest one for me is not having as much sex with my husband as I "should" be having! At least when you're single you only have to deal with your own feelings. And your limitations are yours alone, they don't directly affect other people.