lol, yeah you might really have to crap your pants or skirt....
I do not mean to make light of your situation, just trying to be funny. My husband made a comment the other day, when I told him I did not want to go to the Pearl Jam concert in a couple of weeks. Mainly b/c I typically have to use the bathroom 5 times between 6 to 8 pm. So we would be travelling w/other people an hour and a half from 5 to 6:30pm then waiting in line to see the show then who knows how often he'd have to pull over so I could poop on the side of the highway on the way there and I just know it would not be good.
He was like, stop making excuses and I was like it's not an excuse, I have blood squirting out of my bum uncontrollaby, don't you see how often I use the bathroom and when I call and tell you not to be in there when I get home (we only have one bathroom right now, working on another and he showers around the time I get home, unless I tell him that I will be needing the bathroom). He was like I don't pay attention to how often you use the bathroom. So then I spent the next day announcing each time I had to go. I think he was just giving me a 'hard time' but still I was ticked.
besides pooping in the car, I would sit down w/him and have a conversation that explains everything to eachother, sometimes, I have to knock my husband over the head a few times before he 'gets it'. I am sure the move has been very stressful on the both of you.
Also, a suggestion that if you can't go see his Grandpa, have him bring his Grandpa to you.
hope everything goes well!
Beth, 32 ~ small flare - hoping caused by aspirin - hydrocortisone e's