We talked last night and he totally understood everything and rememberd our previous discussions. He was overtired and a little jealous that all his friends wives are pg and really wants to have kids. Well he should not have waited 6 years to propose to me!!! lol!
In retrospect I wish we had started a few years earlier (we have only been married for two), but glad I did not have kids in my young twenties for a number of reasons, I am not with the same person I was then and hope to be able to raise my kids with their father in the same house. I was nowhere near ready to have kids living week to week $ and I got most of my partying out of my system. Now, I cannot wait to be a Mom, can't wait to have a baby and watch our child grow up and see what kind of person they will be...........besides, who is going to drive me to all my Dr appt's in my old age and take care of me??? I don't know what my Mom and Gram would do without their kids, they would be all alone.
Funny story; my Gram lives in eldery housing 5 min from my Aunt who is there all the time and takes her to all her Dr appts and midnight emergency room visits. My other Aunt goes there once a week to take her to lunch, I go there about
1xmonth and so do her other children and grandchildren. I overheard one of the residents say, "That Dot gets out all the time", Dot is my Gram's name, short for Dorathy.
Anyhoo, all joking aside, I think people should only have kids if they really want to be parents and all that goes along w/it.
thanks for listening and I did not have to wallop him too hard!
Beth, 33 ~ hoping to taper pred successfully, wish me luck!
Major Flare Sept/Oct 07
UC dx'd 03/00 (Proctosigmoiditis); Pancolitis since 09/07
Azathioprine 200mg 1xday nightly; Calcium and Vit D 500mg 3xday, Multi Vit, Folic Acid 400mg 2xday, Prilosec, Probiotics.
Minimal Change Disease (Kidney Disorder) dx'd 09/07. Close to remission since 9/08.
Prednisone 5mg/2.5mg alt days 1xday, Simvastatin 20mg 1xday, Diovan 160mg 2xday. Tekturna 300mg 1xday, Fosomax 70mg 1xweek. MCD may be from hypersensitivty to 5ASA drugs. Do you have edema? If so, check your blood protien level!