Kind of OT... Child Custody

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Date Joined Feb 2007
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   Posted 12/12/2008 10:59 AM (GMT -6)   
YAY! I won costody of my 3 year old beautiful little daughter. I revised my signature today and it's her birthday so I had to write this post. I have had temporary custody since January this year, but Final Custody court was December 1st. I had been working extra part-time jobs, saving work bonuses and income tax returns and have had 3 different roommates all while dealing with my ulcerative colitis in order to pay way way too much child support and afford a lawyer and I have done it all for her...
I am so relieved b/c I was stressing over the fact that I could lose her. I stressed thinking about the environment she would be exposed to if I had lost the battle. And needless to say we are both attached to eachother and she is my inspiration and motivation in life. I have been feeling better and better b/c my UC inflamation is obviously improving and maybe it is because I am so happy and relieved to have her and bring her up my way. You all wouldn't believe how much she steals the spinach and brocolli off my plate after she finishes
She helped (or I should say did most of the work) when we baked a caked yesterday. She is so happy with life and such a delight for me. I just had to let you all know.
28/M/TX single parent of gorgeous 3yo girl (revised 12/12/08)
Severe Colitis (pancolitis) since January 9, 2005
currently:  Mildly Flaring 
RX/day: none! Tapered off Prednisone 9/20/08. Lost job and insurance 10/2007 and stopped taking asacol and Imuran cold turkey
OTC: enzymes everyday, turmeric, seldom use probiotics, vitamins & other natural treatments
Diet: SCD helps tremendously, but am not strictly on it.
Other: Prayer, food combos, good posture, chewing more, etc.

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   Posted 12/12/2008 11:12 AM (GMT -6)   
Got2Believe....I think your screenname says it all! You believed and worked hard for something so beautiful! Congrats and happy to hear both of your dreams came true. I bet that cake was the best cake you've ever eaten! Again, best wishes for a happy life and enjoying that sweet daughter.


Remicade - will have my 25th infusion on November 26 
Vitamin B-12/Biotin, Probiotics
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Date Joined May 2003
Total Posts : 30976
   Posted 12/12/2008 11:19 AM (GMT -6)   
Wow, I can only imagine what you've been going awesome you've got custody and are now able to get on with your new life together!

Hope you continue to feel well.

Be happy!
*Heather* Status..Asacol 6 (3 twice daily); enemas every 5th night
~diagnosed January 1989 UC (proctosigmoiditis)
~Bentylol (dicyclomine) 20mg as needed
~Probiotics....(Natural Factors Protec, Primadophilus Reuteri Pearls, Natural Factors Ultimate)....1 each  @ bedtime
~various digestive enzymes as needed
~Ranitidine (reflux);  Effexor XR 75mg(depression);  Pulmicort/Airomir (asthma)
~URSO for PSC (or PBC) 500mg X 2 daily (LFTs back to NORMAL!!)
My doc's logic.. "TREAT (FROM)BOTH ENDS"  worth it !!!

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Date Joined Feb 2004
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   Posted 12/12/2008 1:56 PM (GMT -6)   
Congratulations!!!!!! I'm very happy for both of you, what a great xmas gift!!! They grow up so fast, feels like yesterday that my 3 yr old daughter was kicking around, now she's out on her own and will be 19 in January (but I still have my son to baby for a few more yrs at least).

My bum is broken....there's a big crack down the middle of it! LOL :)

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Date Joined Jan 2008
Total Posts : 381
   Posted 12/12/2008 5:12 PM (GMT -6)   

I am sooo happy for you. I know that the main reason I keep going despite this horrible disease is because of my 5yr. old who has only known me as sick... She makes me laugh and definitely keeps me moving even when I just want to lay down.

The best of luck to you

Jackie, 43

Pancolitis, DX October 06

Lexapro, colazal 3x3, Sythroid, Protonix, Flagyl

10 infusions of Remicade- doesn't work
tried 6MP - taken off because of health concerns

tapering prednisone at 25 mg
Added 6MP- November 25th

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Date Joined Aug 2008
Total Posts : 903
   Posted 12/12/2008 11:32 PM (GMT -6)   
Congratulations! Must be a GREAT early Christmas gift to you.
26 year old, Married, Female.
Diagnosed with UC since March 2007
Taking Humira and Imuran since May 2007 (Currently in remission since May 2007)

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