Not all relationships work out....it's a simple fact. It's a struggle sometimes to understand each others' perspective. You also have to understand that he wants someone that's able to do the things he wants to do as well....
It's a two way street, and you seem to have come to the same conclusion that you're not suited for each other. At least you're not married....that would be a different matter. He would have made the commitment knowing your issues and you knowing his....again both responsible for your own issues and hopefully dealing with them.
You'll definitely find another boyfriend who will understand and accept who you are and what you have...but any health issues put a strain on a relationship...heck, it puts a strain on one's own life!
Sometimes it's difficult to love ourselves unconditionally!
*Heather* Status..Asacol (3 x2 daily); flaring /Dec 22, tapered to every 3rd nite..back to nightly (Jan 22)..tapered too fast
~diagnosed January 1989 UC (proctosigmoiditis)
~Bentylol (dicyclomine) 20mg as needed; Ranitidine (reflux); Effexor XR 75mg(depression); Pulmicort/Airomir (asthma)
~vitamins/minerals/supplements; Probiotics....(Natural Factors Protec, Primadophilus Reuteri Pearls, Natural Factors Ultimate). @ bedtime
~various digestive enzymes as needed; started Omega 3
~URSO for PSC (or PBC) 500mg X 2 daily (LFTs back to NORMAL!!)
My doc's logic.. "TREAT (FROM)BOTH ENDS" worth it !!!