Katmom-i know you are worried about
her going through all those experinces after surgery,but if she goes through them with UC she will probably be too sick to even enjoy them.
If she gets a jpouch there is noway anyone will know, and if she gets a perm ileo, they will only know if they see her naked.
go ahead and check into surgery, find out about
good surgeons inyour area, be prepared so you wont have to make an emergency decision.
Remi failed me and when i came off i was so much worse than when i went on.
I know how hard the surgery decision is, i missed a good bit of my life, when i should have been having fun and going to parties and such, i was sick with UC. I would have much rather been at parties and such with a bag then at home sick.
UC for 8 years, before finally kicking its butt and having a permanent ileostomy April 17 2007!
-I have gone to find myself, if i get back before i return, keep me here-