Okay, so he cried. And this will happen over and over. Trust me. Been here, done that....over and over again. Oh, and he would clean the house or whatever thing he thought would make things better -- for the moment or until I relinquished again. I bet if you went to a group for people who are enablers they would tell you this same story -- just a different name. Obviously you have a computer; use that as a resouce to find the help you need. There are plenty of safe houses as Navy said, and there are several resources at www.ca.gov
, also here's Placer County http://www.placer.ca.gov
I hope I don't sound callous, but it's the only way to deal with this -- or you might not. Remember, it's a cycle...and you are in it.
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