We do allow this type of discussion on HW, because it is part of living life. Just remember to make it PG, since we have younger members on our forum. One can manage an active sex life with UC. I do, but I'm very
open with my husband and he is very understanding. Morning are not my best time, but if he requires the need, there are other options. I think living life and enjoying it even though you have an illness makes us mentally and physically feel better. There are so many illnesses out there that people have...if everyone stopped enjoying sex...what a bummer it would be! I agree when you are in a flare it might not be so comfortable, but it is definitely you that needs to make that decision! Have a good discussion with her and let her know your feelings. Take care and good luck!
Remicade - will have my 33rd infusion on June 9.
Vitamin B-12/Biotin, Probiotics, Vitamin D-3 (2000 IU)
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