We have had many cats come to our house where we used to live. I swear I had "sucker" written on my forehead. I would leave some food but wouldn't let them in. I have two females that do not like other kitties.
Since we are on this topic-anyone who has cats found that their males have been more affectionate than their females? My males (that of course are no longer with me) were major lap cats and my females not so much.
Nah, I have a female cat and she's super affectionate, my daughter moved back in this summer and brought her male cat (neutered) and he's super affectionate as well, so it's not necessarily a male-female thing, it's just each cat's personality cuz we used to have another female and she wasn't very affectionate at all, only with the kids from time to time, otherwise she liked to keep to herself....just their individual personality is all.