Oh, Serenity, that is bad news!
What treatments is she pursuing?
There are two components to the "feeling' - one, physical, and the other, how one is dealing emotionally.
Asking that "how do you FEEL?" question is probably totally appropriate for her at this point. I was touched by people asking while I was going through it. But now, 8 months post-chemo with 2 clear CT scans, (6 months apart), it bugs me. It mostly bothers me because the question comes from the folks around where I work, and they absolutely know I'm back to carrying my full load at work, and have been doing so for months. It's pretty apparent I am not thinking of myself as a sick person. So I guess I'm .. I don't know, both annoyed and nervous that they see me as not fully able?
I'm not sure if any of this is a helpful response.....
Post Edited (songlady) : 3/10/2019 11:29:51 AM (GMT-6)