Sorry folks

Another thread was locked where I may have been too harsh in my responses. Don't know if that was the reason, but it's locked after I let loose more than I usually do and it likely would have escalated so I guess that's why it was locked.

Anyway ... sorry ... when you read that thread there is a lot of support and caring if you ignore the other stuff and that's all that thread was meant to be ... support and caring.

It wasn't harsh: some people just like to be contrary for the sake of it, and can't even provide an intelligent response when you ask for clarification on something. That is frustrating, especially when it endangers other people.

One thing I've noticed being on a different time zone to the US, is sometimes inflammatory posts are deleted before most of you will have seen it.

Dang, I'm gone for a little while and miss all the fun stuff.

No worries. Everyone has a moment (or two or three) from wherever in the world they live (it's not regulated to only one location or country) when they feel strongly about something and might say something that might be alittle strong. (But you know that there are always people on either sideline cheering you on for saying what they may have been thinking. )

I find myself in that situation alot. After this post I am gonna go shopping for pom-poms! LOL..

CCinPA said...
Another thread was locked where I may have been too harsh in my responses. Don't know if that was the reason, but it's locked after I let loose more than I usually do and it likely would have escalated so I guess that's why it was locked.

Anyway ... sorry ... when you read that thread there is a lot of support and caring if you ignore the other stuff and that's all that thread was meant to be ... support and caring.

I honestly find your apology hollow because you keep singling me out for attack in almost every thread I post to. You and KS. I haven't done anything to vilify either of you, all I do is disagree with certain points of view and state my reasons why. I don't PERSONALLY attack people. Yet you seem to think it's okay to attack me and degrade my humanity just because I don't share your world view.

You can apologize by STOPPING. Apologies mean nothing if there is no follow through. In the future, please don't come at me with such hatred and single-mindedness. I am not your enemy. I'm just another person with UC who has his own views about it.

Honestly, grow up. I am shocked the mods permit this continued behaviour in a so-called support group. I attend support groups all the time and if someone came at me like you've come at me - you and KS - you would have been kicked out for being disrespectful. You need to learn how to disagree with ideas without making it about the person. That's what adults do.

Stop bullying others and maybe this kind of fighting will stop happening. I feel that I have been singled out because I am one of the only people around here who stands up to bullying. Well, get used to it. Every time you attack me personally I'll defend myself. EVERY TIME. The mods should single out instigators and remove them if they want to prevent this from happening. You can't blame people for self-defense.

Post Edited (VanJordan) : 2/23/2022 4:07:44 PM (GMT-7)

Van the way you state things leaves a bad taste in many peoples mouth. You create controversy and that's not the purpose here. So relax, take a chill pill. Sometimes we all have to LET GO and let others opinions be respected and not challenge others opinions. Be well