I do not want to hurt anyone's feelings, but this is not the most appropriate topic for this forum. This forum is a health resource. If you would like to find out more about
dating and IBD there is some dating sites that pertain to this and other health issues. So please goggle dating and IBD, etc.
In the meantime please do not exclude healthy people, it is about finding someone who is endowed with a compassionate nature and can understand or at least empathize with what you are going through. If this is a hurting subject in your past relationships then perhaps therapy might help as well. For I believe that relationship/sexual health is a part of overall health.
As for offline conversations that do not pertain to healingwell perhaps activating your im and email address might help.