Hello there! Just thought I'd offer another post of support. I'm so sorry that your babe had to go through all of that. I can't imagine how hard that would be on a parent. (I don't have kids.)
No matter what's running through your minds - nothing you or your wife did caused this. Don't let yourself go there! It's not worth it emotionally.
Hang in there!
Pan-colitis and GERD diagnosed May 2003
Asacol 12 per day, Azathioprine 75mg, Rowasa and Canasa as needed
Aciphex, Effexor XR, BCP, Rhinocort nasal spray
Forvia and a Probiotic
Osteopenia (hip and spine) from prednisone use. Started Azathioprine because I was steroid dependent.
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