UC can get in my way relationship wise.
I know you aren't feeling great, but go out and buy your gal the flowers she likes the most, and offer to make her dinner and clean up the kitchen. I found that a bit of romance makes your gut feel a bit better - especially when you see her smile and her beautiful eyes open wide. It also doesn't hurt the old male libido either! hehehehe
Also wouldn't hurt to shave, put on a nice shirt, and polish your shoes! hehe