Well, I'm a woman, but I suppose it's the same "talk!"
When I met my boyfriend, I had the same questions, but I waited until I thought I really knew that I cared about
4 dates) and then I told him that I wanted to be up front with him because I have a chronic illness called Ulcerative Colitis. He told me...."Well, everyone has something" and made it feel like it wasn't an issue with him and it never has been. He even went and researched it before I saw him again, and even researched the Remicade. One time when I was sick from the UC he let me lay on the couch all day and took really good care of me. It was sweet. And when he was sick, I took care of him. So it really all works out; remember we are all human, and most of us are caring....if that person isn't, maybe it's someone you wouldn't want to be with anyway?
Remicade - will have my 19th infusion on December 27.
Imuran - 100 mgs....taken before bedtime
Vitamin B-12/Biotin, Probiotics
"Life is short -- make fun of it"
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