Burning in the Heart; Can a relationship cause a heart problems?

What is the cause of this heart burning?
Stress cause by my girlfriend past problems - 0.0%
Stress cause by unconfortable relashionship - 0.0%
Both 1 and 2 - 100.0%
Stress cause by other problems in my life - 0.0%
None of the above - 0.0%
All the above - 0.0%

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Date Joined Nov 2012
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   Posted 11/26/2012 5:42 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi everyone,

I have a very sensitive story.
Since 3 years, I am in a relationship with a woman. When we met, she told me that she is divorced and I was fine with it. But with time, her past life with her Ex, and her child started to affect our relationship. After a year, I decided to breakup. But she went into depression, and she was about to make a suicide.. so I came back to her... and last summer, I couldn't bear it anymore... phone calls in the middle of the night.. fighting with her ex over the child... crying for hours for not seeing her son... etc

Since 3 month, I decided to move and live alone.. so now I have my own place.. and we still in a relationship, I see her one day a week (saturday night).. But the problem is... since some time, when I decided to move and live alone.. everytime, she calls me and want to talk, I am having this HEART weird feeling... like BURNING... actually, at this moment, writing this email.. I feel it... I was ok... but she just came on skype, and started talking to me... i was fine... and suddenly the "Burning" feeling came...

I just want to know... is this feeling of buring in my heart has to do with her? or it's something else... Shall I disconnect for good with her...
I am confused... I don't want to end up with a heart desease... I am very a fit man, sportive... I've never had problems with my heart before.. I am 36 years old.. and none of my family had a heart problem.

I appreciate any help or if someone can share with me his experience if similar to get out of this situation


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Date Joined Sep 2007
Total Posts : 42526
   Posted 11/26/2012 7:12 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Micka,

I deleted your other post. We can't make duplicate threads and posts on this forum. The only difference was your poll.

It sounds to me like your girlfriend is causing you stress and anxiety. I wonder if you should spend some time away from her. See how your health is without the stress of her in it. We have a very good anxiety and panic forum. I almost think you would get more response in that forum with this particuar subject.

I, myself, recommend that you distance yourself from your girlfriend for awhile and see if it doesn't stop the feeling in your heart.

Take care...

Hugs, Karen
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia

fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies
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