Hi Katy and Welcome to HealingWell!
I'm sorry that you've had to go through all of this already! Sara, has pointed you in the right direction.
Thank you, Sara!!
We've had a couple of others that have come here before with this - I'll see if I can find their posts and bring them up for you to read, Katy.
Best Wishes to you and please come back here for any questions you might have!