Posted 11/18/2006 5:27 PM (GMT -6)
sorry it took so long to respond,its been a crazy week! This is his first appeal for ss,,,,,so we are really hoping it goes through, Hes had an attourney since filing this appeal,but they do NOTHING ,,i have been the one dealing with ss,they dont even make phone calls or do any paperwork except file the appeal,and take 25 percent if it does go through,,,,,,they dont do anything until the next appeal,if its necessary,i wish we hadnt got them until the next appeal though,,,,,,if it goes through this time,they get their 25 percent for doing nothing....I know hes young to be going through this,,,,actually im young trying to deal with him going through this lol (im 39) ,,,it seems like hes angry with me,for NOT being sick,,,,have you ever felt that way? He wants me to just sit and wait for him to wake up,and be at his beckon call,and i can NOT do that,,,,,i do stay at home most of the time,but if i decide to leave for any reason,other then taking care of the household(groceries,drugstore,ect),,he acts awful,,,i keep telling him that i have to take care of myself too,so i can be strong for him and my kids,but its not sinking in,,,,,,Ive tried to talk him into at least reading the posts on here,he wont have it,,,,,,,,and also forgot to tell ya,he is on antidepressents,,,225 mg of effexor,,and has been for a year or so,,,also hes on clonopin(spelling?) for this severe twitching hes had in his hands since his heart attack and for nerves,, hope your weekend is going great,gotta run:)
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body,but rather to skid in sideways,chocolate in one hand,wine in the other,body used up ,totally worn out and screaming"WOOOOHOO WHAT A RIDE!!!"